In this episode, Dita and you will Dajana method the fresh questionable subject out-of matchmaking/marrying outside the Albanian society
In this very expected topic, Dita and Dajana method the topic regarding one another items out-of views which is: the coziness and expertise away from relationships/marrying during the culture, while the invited and delightful expansion of one’s community which is a result of relationship/marrying away from they. They read aloud a message sent out of a good listener whom shares the woman tale out-of relationships a great Latino male when you look at the miracle for 5 decades and exactly how it offers inspired their relationships in past times, and wants ideas on how to deal with so it unavoidable issue together with her loved ones while the the woman is willing to provides a premier-level union that have him afterwards. Dita and you may Dajana display her relationships expertise in non-Albanian men and you can explain why it on their own avoid of relationship Albanian men. It discuss the pro’s and you can con’s that are included with that it. It dissect ab muscles taboo topic because of the facts as to why Albanians be which crazy stress at this point/wed within society, in addition to problem it into-heading and you will outdated formality of the concentrating on the wonder that accompanies acquiring the independence to date/get married The person you Like without having to face people effects instance as being shunned, singled-out, talked about otherwise-terrible instance single parents meet situation- are “disowned”. Why are unable to i accept all people aside from competition, religion, gender, and you may society and start to determine which i have a high-top relationship having merely about how it like and you can clean out united states? Just why is it so hard to own Albanians to understand the idea you to “outsiders” are merely as eager to share the fresh new Albanian community and you can pamper by themselves within it? The fear that Albanians possess out of “losing” its community/life due to the community broadening their perspectives only exhibits the new fear toward facts of the rejecting those who carry out plan to time/wed away from people. Exactly how are they supposed to share its culture through its new-located mate/relatives for folks who ignore her or him in advance of they could begin to do very? Why can not Albanians fool around with its rigorous belief from a rigid-knit family ethical and apply you to to the people which day/wed outside of its community in order to acceptance all of them with unlock arms and permit people that commonly Albanian in order to accept the fresh new culture as better?
Within episode, Dita and you can Dajana method the new debatable topic regarding matchmaking/marrying outside of the Albanian society
Contained in this extremely requested topic, Dita and Dajana strategy the niche out of each other points from viewpoints which is: the coziness and you may expertise out-of relationships/marrying in the people, and the acceptance and delightful extension of your own society that is a result of relationships/marrying away from they. They read out a message delivered out-of a good listener exactly who offers the lady tale away from relationship a great Latino male inside miracle for five many years and how it’s got influenced the matchmaking in the past, and you may requests for some tips on how to approach which inevitable situation together with her loved ones because this woman is happy to possess a top-level partnership that have your later on. Dita and you can Dajana display their unique relationship knowledge of non-Albanian boys and you can identify why they on their own prevent out-of matchmaking Albanian men. They talk about the pro’s and you will con’s that are included with this. It dissect the actual taboo subject by expertise why Albanians end up being so it insane tension thus far/get married within people, including challenge so it for the-supposed and outdated formality from the concentrating on the sweetness that comes with acquiring the versatility up until now/wed The person you Love without the need to deal with people outcomes like as being shunned, singled-aside, chatted about otherwise-bad circumstances circumstances- getting “disowned”. As to why can not i undertake everybody regardless of race, religion, intercourse, and you will society and begin to determine exactly who i’ve a leading-peak union with merely about how exactly it love and you may beat us? Why is it so hard to own Albanians to grasp the idea you to “outsiders” are merely just like the desperate to share the fresh Albanian community and you will indulge by themselves in it? Driving a car one to Albanians possess from “losing” its culture/way of life due to the area increasing its perspectives simply exhibits the anxiety with the fact of the rejecting people who create decide to time/wed beyond your culture. How are they designed to express its people and their the brand new-found companion/family members for many who pass up them ahead of they can beginning to perform thus? Why cannot Albanians use its rigid belief out of a tight-knit relatives ethical thereby applying that to the people just who go out/get married outside of its area to greeting all of them with open arms and permit people that are not Albanian to embrace the fresh culture as the better?
